When I meet people in my life I tend to separate them into categories. The good ones, the bad ones, the ones who just like your shoes, the ones you sit with just because they are there, the list goes on and on. As I venture away from certain people and have new ones come into my life I realize the real categories people are separated into. The ones who will stay in your life for many years even after you stop seeing them everyday and the ones you just need to walk away from. Because after a little while, after you have separated yourself from a group of people you get to see it from the outside. And you can begin to realize how lucky you are. How lucky you are to be able to focus on your life not anyone else's. And you really see how sad it is when people focus on their own lives less and less until they don't really have lives at all. And they just immerse themselves in other peoples problems, digging their graves deeper and deeper until they just slip. And end up in a never ending free fall. And they fall for so long that they don't know up from down, left from right and they don't know when they are crossing the line. So when it's all over, when it's all been said and done we just have to ask ourselves who do we want to remember?