Initial connections are everything. If you grow close to someone from the very beginning, even if you end up growing so far apart, you can come back together. I promise. It might not be as perfect as before, but if it was from the second you first saw them, and the second they first saw you. Then there is something about you that draws you to them. It's just part of you. And in the end no no matter how much we try, we can't fight our feelings. When it seems like everything might be entirely screwed up, you should just try to follow everything your mind tells you to follow. The things you are truly drawn to. Just follow them. They will take you where you need to be.

Because these days aren't easy
Like they have been once before
These days aren't easy anymore.

- Secondhand Serenade

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